I still remember that hoarding......

It was routine for me during those five years from 2000 to 2005 to catch a PMT that used to stop somewhere between shashtri chowk to Yerawada  & one big hoarding always used to catch my attention. Initially I did not understand its meaning but everyday when those words used to come before my eyes, I used to stare at them till they completely disappear from my view. I tried to guess the meaning of it & finally I understood it.
I guess there was some school nearby & the hoarding was meant to be read by the the parents who came to the school or anyhow it was very important for those having children at their home. So without having an intention to read & remember those lines even after twenty years I have those lines as fresh as watching them for the first time in life. The words were like this-

" Do not worry about children, not listening to you, worry about the thing that they are always listening to you."

I never thought that time that someday I would write an article on such small incident. But it is really a fact that we (parents or elders) must care for this. We must keep a big control on what we say when children are around, right? It can be a great parenting tip by the way to always mind our language when little ones are around. It is a good practice to follow so that our next generation will listen to us properly & seriously on any topic. It is a big concern to notice the quick reactions of our young generation now a days over any small or a silly incident. The current pandemic COVID19 situation even makes it more serious to be addressed on priority.
In fact I will say why to restrict it only to the children, I mean, it is a good practice to see around before uttering any negative word from our mouth. It will make us more responsible while being in a standard society where this thing is followed very specifically. Children have a curious mind we all know. At the same time anyone who is listening to us, will always focus on our words & styles. So we must give something positive to think to the little ones through our all talks. We need to focus on this habit without any excuse friends.
Let us be responsible & pass a good message to children that we are always talking 'good' in front of them since they pretend to listen us but behave exactly opposite. This line is there in my mind since years & I follow it in my life.
I wish the world also follows it very carefully-

" Do not worry about children, not listening to you, worry about the thing that they are always listening to you."

Thank you.

- Mr. Amul Tamboli

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